Memory Cafe Experience

5/23/13

2-4pm at the Atlas Coffee Mill in Appleton, WI

      Another wonderful memory cafe event! Singer/song writer Jeanne created songs out of things participants wrote about their experiences and memories from two weeks ago. The hand written memories were spread out on tables for everyone to view as well.  Everyone really enjoyed singing along (the lyrics were provided). I don't think there was even one person who did not sing with the group! This was the main event and it was enjoyed by all.  Also, the "hello" and "friendship" songs were sung. You can just see how people's faces brighten up during the "hello" song. It is so nice to have this at the beginning so everyone gets to know one another!
            At one point during the cafe, overseas travel came up and I thought it was interesting that nearly everyone at the event indicated that they have traveled overseas! Sharing jokes was another highlight of the event. Sometimes it just feels good to laugh, and jokes are things everyone can laugh about! I also noticed at this event the importance of the memory cafes role in providing connections for those who attend. To elaborate, the cafes provide the opportunity for many different types of connections to be made for those with memory loss, their care givers, and really anyone who attends. They allow participants with memory loss and their care partners to  make new connections with others, independent of each other.  The cafes also allow the person with memory loss and their care partner to connect with each other. This I think is the most special to see.  We have often been given the rare chance in these cafes to see two loved ones share a secret and laugh together despite a difficult time in their lives.
             It was a great event and though there was quite a bit of singing, everyone joined in and had a great time! There was lots of laughter, sharing, and caring:)

-Heather